Hi Wifey! It's been a long time and I was just trying to catch up on your thread.
I saw the desparation in your posts and I hope that your H will not take advantage of your feelings. I understand what you are going through with the menopause junk. even though I had surgery and was "thrown" into it years ago. I know my hormones were very messed up before I had the EA....during the EA.....and after the EA!! Between the health issues and the emotional stress levels, yes....I too, thought I was having a nervous breakdown. It is horrible. I would tell any woman not to mess around with small town doctors (the way I did) and try to find one that knows what to do for a female going through these changes! It not only affects us physically, but in every way our mind, body & spirit work together. Everything about us is hormonal. I think a lot of that plays a part in so many women having MLC now days. When I was a kid, we never heard of that term.....and especially with females. The first time I heard it was referring to balding men in their 50's who wear gold chains and buy a red sports car. They use to say that MLC was the "male" version of menopause......then women started having MLC, too.....and we stopped hearing that about men....lol. I typed LOL....but there is nothing funny about any of it!!
I just wanted you to know that I was still around here and I think of you and still want the best for "my girls". I am on the Piecing Forum at "Sandi's Place" if you ever want to drop in.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
