She is at it again. Not the affair, that is over, now she is back in the wishy washy stage. Does not know if there is to much damage to the marriage. She is thinking that she is not ready to be married to me because I still have to build a career and she is not patient enough to be a wife and put in the emotional work it would take to have a partnership.
I think that she will be very lucky if someone comes along that is perfect enough for her.