D7 appears to be doing fine. I guess they have handled the bully. I made a phone call and it was addressed.

As far as nice things to say about my W. Before all this happened, she was the best mother and W I had ever seen. Hands down I would put her on a pedestool compared to anyone else I knew. She had the biggest heart, most giving heart, cared about everyone and would step in to help anyone out in any situation. She was truly a wonderful person. She was as unselfish as they came. Stupid me didn't realize how wonderful of a W I had been given. She would do anything to make the kids happy and always worried about them. She had such a great outlook on life and loved living life. She is super intelligent and driven and just a ton of fun to be around. She loved to have people over for get togethers. She was an amazing woman. One night she stayed up the entire night helping me with an assignment at work I was having trouble with. She used to surprise me on my birthday by showing up at work unnanounced with pizza and drinks. She would make sure I was the focus. She worked hard to make sure everyone always had a good time. It was very important to her. She read a lot of books. Church was important to her. She would go to the Christian bookstore and look for things for her and the girls and even me. She worked hard to make our house a home. She stood by my side no matter what. She was the most wonderful person I knew and I took it all for granted.

Now she can't stand me. She is totally into herself now even at the kids happiness. She is just a different person now than she used to be. But she was truly amazing. Everyone loved her. It is so hard being without her realizing what I had and not having it now.

The one thing she had was once she had had it with someone, that was it, she was done with them and it was going to take a miracle to fix it. And I mean you had to do a lot to finally cross that line. And I did. I never thought it would happen to me. But it did.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...