Im sorry. I hate being such a downer...sadly I have been at this so long I think I have heard every excuse in the book.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I agree, I doubt you put your wife through in 20 years what my H put me through in three. My friends don't agree with me giving him a chance, only my kids support it b/c they think forgiveness is important when someone is trying. I am so grateful they are able to think this way.
