Thanks guys. Burt, I am definitely going to continue to work on myself and work through the issues that I had/have. I am pretty cautious about this and no matter what I don't want to fall back into prior co-dependent behavior patterns. I still plan to go to IC as well as MC to work through my own issues as we work through our joint problems and W will do the same.
Thanks Puppy. I know I'm no where near out of the woods yet but I really have to thank you and everyone else for helping me get to the point I'm at now.


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1776293#Post1776293