Well I had to call the police and have son removed to his dad's house. It started like this... Son said "Mom dad has 2 questions for ya" "I said ok" Son said, "Dad wants to know if you are going to sale the sea doo (watercraft toy) and to tell you he got a letter on the house" "I said, tell him to call me and let me know what the letter said." Son said, "Dad says NO he isnt calling and DO NOT call him" "I say, ok well ask him what it said" Son said, "NOPE I am done talking, I dont want to be in middle" I said, "Dad put you in the middle, not me" Son said, "Go away, I am done talking" (I was standing outside his bedroom door and he wouldnt open it. This made me upset. I said, "OPEN THIS DOOR" We argued back and forth and finally I KICKED THE DOOR IN! I had had enought, couldnt take it anymore. We argued and of course he was on the phone with dad the whole time complaining. I struggled to grab the phone and he hit me. I dont know if it was intentional or on purpose. I called my cop friend to come and remove him and talk to him. Son is living with dad now. He is VERY upset with me. This broke my heart. I was on the front porch waiting on son to leave and he came out and said, "Mom dad isnt coming to get me until you go inside" I said, "Well too bad, because this is my house and I AM NOT GOING INSIDE TIL I AM READY." I am tired of being pushed around and this was just plain childish. His dad pulled up and I took the chance to ask him for my letter. My xh said, "IT IS NOT YOUR LETTER, IT WAS SENT TO ME!" and pulled off. This was the MOST childish thing I have ever witnessed. Never in my life, have I seen a grown man act this way. Of course his gf was driving...I didnt care, it didnt bother me in the least. I walked right down my driveway and right up to their car and asked for the letter. They do NOT scare me and I am tired of not standing up for myself. I have made decisions and I am sorry, but I have to stick by them.
Now some of you will probably say that I should not of approached xh or I should not of done this in front of son, but oh well, I have had enough. I lost my mom I lost my h I lost my son (not really, but I feel like I have) I lost my home I am at the end of my rope.
My xh told me I was going to die alone and maybe I will but I will die in peace hopefully.
