He's just trying to get your attention. It's funny when they say people who go through a midlife crisis tend to revert back to a teenager mentality.
Ok but whereas many here are pining just to get an iota of attention from their WAS, I am getting it and don't know what to do with it. It is the same dynamic as in our M but amplified.
I need to pick a path. Either we are working on something or we're not. I already made clear that if he doesn't want to work on a new R (friend or M), then it is going to be strictly kids and finances. I want out of the dynamic. Now, of course, he is paying more attention to me and I have to follow through on what I said.
