I'm getting at nothing in particular...just finding it interesting.
But now that you mention it, yes, I think there may be better success kicking the cheating spouse to the curb. What are most of the people on here (LBSes) but people that have been kicked to the curb and are desperately trying to win their spouse back. We want what we can't have.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer