He hasn't been in the military long enough to be deployed - and he's never been gone for more than three weeks at a time.
I know the stress of having to keep up a PT standard has really gotten to him, on top of a 60-70 hour work week for the past three months. That's how everything ended up crashing. He is deciding not to reenlist because everything is such a mess with our marriage right now - that if he was 100% done he'd just go ahead and reenlist and deploy with his unit next summer.
He is leaving next week for three weeks. Since I won't have to worry about him needing to come over or visit with DD, I'm wondering if I should go dark for the most part over that time. I don't know if that will affect things for the better or worse. I guess it depends on if we go to MC again between now and then (I have an appointment set up but he doesn't know if he will go or not)
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
