We never talk about it or any serious issue for that matter. In April, when H said he loved me, I tried to ask what had changed. All he said was that he wanted to make me happy. H never likes to talk about his feelings.
So, I'm thinking of contacting the texter myself to see if what H says is true. Just friends, etc. He'd be furious. I responded to a couple of her texts(on his phone, he was napping)several weeks ago and he came unglued. The anger only fuels my suspicion.
I don't want to ruin what we have going on if it's genuine but I can't take the not knowing. By the way, I'm thinking about this because I saw online that they texted last night when H was out with friends.
