WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

I know I have to stop talking to her, but it is hard when we are trading off with kids and my job situation.

I had started out the call with the intent that we talk about the job that I had just interviewed for (I didn't tell her I got an offer). I told her that they want me back up there next Thurs to look at one of the other plants as well as review their financial performance and latest strategic goal planning session. So she knows it sounds pretty serious as I told her that we are meeting because I have questions.

We got into the relationship talk because of how she had a conversation with her sister about her divorce 6 years ago. She said that they had talked about her sister's situation and how it relatest to her.

That's when it wound up full circle into the relationship discussion.

I really don't want to give up on her. I definititely don't want to give up on the kids either. I know many people will say it's not the quantity of time you spend with the kids, but it's the quality. Plenty of kids are growing up seeing their dad every other weekend. I know that they will survive, but is that really the best......

It is tough.