Not minimizing the mindf*ck aspect. But, at the risk of sounding grass is always greener...it does seem to idicate that he "cares", however that concept can be deconstructed given the sitch. I would take a little mixed message communication at this point, at the very least it would indicate that 10 years and all we had together was even a blip on his radar screen.
I know it messes with your focus...but, depending on what you want, it at least leaves the door open, ya know?
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
