Had an interesting conversation with my oldest son this morning.
He told me that my H told him he wasn't coming down to the lake this weekend (no surprise there - although he never verbally confirmed it with me). My son said he was really surprised by that.
He then went on to say that my H keeps asking him to hang out with him - I thought maybe we can watch a movie together, I never get to see you anymore, you're always with your girlfriend.
My son said to me - it's just weird Mom. I have my own friends. I stayed neutral. My son said what about X (his best friend) are they talking more - I thought Dad said he and X (friend's W - one who was talking to my H on the phone) were getting back together.
I had to tell him that I didn't think that was happening but the only people who know are the two of them and it's really just their business. He said what about K? Another mutual friend - he's a pretty good guy right? I just said sure he's a good guy.
I don't think my oldest son realized that my younger son and I were not just going to be gone for the weekend. I told him if he needs me I'm just a phone call away.
I think my H is starting to see what life's going to be like on his own!
