Prematurely called divorce busted, worse now

[steady]

Are you folding the clothes to elicit a response from her? Are you folding the clothes because it's the right thing to do?

What if you folded the clothes and she frowned? Would you stop folding clothes even though it's the right thing to do?

When you fold the clothes, fold the clothes - everything else is just fluff (ie: thinking, I wonder what she will think of me folding these clothes; what if I put the clothes away where they don't go will she get mad; if I do more chores she will like me better, etc... these are all elements of attempting to control the uncontrollable)

Don't do with an expectation of getting some event to happen. Do because it's the right thing to do.

That's the first part..

Next part -

"I think you mean a current situation is what it is, and rather than expend energy projecting that situation in the future, it is better to address it now as the situation dictates."

Yes. You have no idea what is good or bad. Address what is in front of you. Many things that are 'good' turn out bad, and vice versa. Don't label, don't expect, don't project, don't focus on anything outside of your control.

Improve yourself and do what needs to get done.