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[Faith2010]

GIMA - Good news is he's gone. I agree about the yelling, it's the first time since this whole thing started.

Not an excuse but H is in a really bad place right now. H is completely messing up his life and now, on top of it, his brother died. I know he feels guilty for not spending more time with his brother. I told H yesterday that I think he needs IC due to all the issues he is facing. H responded he thought he was handling it well then added, with the exception of our M. H is in complete denial. H is a selfish SOB right now and does not have an ounce of feeling for me.

I am going to look into IC for me. Unfortunately I have to choose from my insurance's website cause I know no one and I've asked around but people seem to either know counselors for children or counselors they didn't like.