Okay - I approached H and told him I understood he wanted to be with his family and I apologize if he mistook what I had said as that was not my intent. H said Okay.
H just left to go to his parents. I don't know how long he is going or if he will be back tonight. S is a bit upset that he won't be here but I did not tell H that because he'll just see it as one more thing he's doing wrong.
Gardener - I'm just an emotional wreck right now. H was yelling at me, telling me I was wrong, and how pissed he was. There's only so much I can take. I am trying to be supportive to H because of BIL but I am barely holding it together.
To top it off, H is now brazen enough to put OW's name in his cell phone.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10