Originally Posted By: Chel
Can anyone give me a brief overview of LRT (last resort technique)?


Stop The Chase: stop pursuing, calling,pleading,snooping,begging. Stop saying "I love you, you're the love of my life, soulmate," etc..

Get A Life: Get out, get active, stop being desparate, stop dwelling, Act as if you are moving on/you will be ok no matter how it turns out. Get back to being you.Act like you've had an epiphany and are resuming living your life.

See What Happens: Watch for small changes. Observe. Adjust.

Chel, sorry you have to be here.

Post your situation/history, etc.

Read. Read forums, posts, see what has/is working for people. Ask questions. Read Quotes Found on Divorce Busting (II) on this forum.

Talk to you soon.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac