Prematurely called divorce busted, worse now

[Orich]

But don't you need to see if there is good or bad at the moment in order to continue/discontinue whatever you are trying to do? In other words, If I do the kids' laundry and put it all away in their closet and drawers and she gives me a positive response, should I not see that and use it and begin to do other household chores? Or is that being too literal. I think you mean a current situation is what it is, and rather than expend energy projecting that situation in the future, it is better to address it now as the situation dictates.