Yep, that would be great! I think they're just going to set it for final hearing. I would think might as well b/c a judge may give me what H is asking for, but certainly not worse. There's no point in mediating if the other person just wants everything their way and no compromising.

So H was supposed to drop off S15 at his therapy this am (they spent the night there) and instead when I got there at 8:30 to pick him up H met with her instead. By the time she finished meeting with him, she wound up having about 10 minutes with S15, and she's out of town next week. This is the 2nd time H has taken their therapy times, and I feel like emailing him and asking him to set up his own appts. rather than taking the kids times. But I'd break nc so don't know.

The therapist told me he spent almost an hour expressing his concerns about my homeschooling and parenting. She was expressing that to me and I said I think his real concern is his wallet. He never had any concerns for the past 10 years of hsing until he fell in love with OW and wanted a divorce. I did 95% of the parenting the past 15 years, and now all of a sudden he cares this month. Whatever. I told the therapist I think he's a snake, and 2 more that would be censored if I repeated them here. She said her usual therapist stuff, yes, D can be difficult, and I said but it doesn't have to be. You don't have to send 5 nasty emails when D9 forgets her glasses and other stuff like that. I try hard to take the high road & do the right thing, but I lost that today... Karen


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D18, S24