Yes Being Me, STBX is still involved with OP, in fact, last weekend when I was out with the kids at a street festival we ran into the two of them. OP greeted me and then stood aside while I showed STBX the photos I had taken. I really do believe that the two of them are just two people who plugged into each others vulnerable spots and mistook that for love. But, that's their business not mine! Well, I'm off to the doctor now. I've been fighting this horrible virus for almost a month now. I'm taking a few days off work because this working through it is just exhausting me and I'm not getting better. I've been going to work for the past three weeks and I've missed one day. He did blood tests a week and a half ago, at my request, to check blood sugar etc and it showed nothing. So I guess it's just a matter of giving my body the rest it needs and putting work aside for a few days. We'll see what he says.