Jon, when he filed for D he filed for visitation rights (which he didn't need to do, I would have let him see her). When we had the hearing to set the dates up to who would have her when she was in counseling and the court said it needed to be continued by all 3 of us. This way it would be a co-parenting counseling also due to the fact he filed for divorce.

When you separate in our state, you can file for visitation rights by the court. So I'm assuming his lawyer told him to file for the D and visitation all at the same time.

We are not divorced, and my lawyer said he hasn't heard a word about it. My lawyer knows that I don't want the divorce.

What do you think about the phone call I got yesterday also? Am I hoping for too much to think my H put this guy up to it? I don't ever remember him mentioning this guy before, plus we had our number changed since my H worked at the place with him.

Or am I just getting my hopes up that my H asked him to call?


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08