Treese you are right,you need to take care of you and your children. Not so sure about ow winning. What has she won? I really don't think there are any winners in D, affairs, etc.

My h too could possibly have a love child, so I completely understand your pain. Yes our lives have forever changed.

You will have to eventually accept your h and your situation for whatever it is. When you get to acceptance, you will allow yourself to move forward.

Hang in there! Hugs!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"