My exh used to say "there is too much water under the bridge for us to try". I say thats horse pucky! If you want your M bad enough, nothing is too much. Sorry, just seems like a cop out.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!