Alright so not the best DBing last night but I told my W that I did not want her to move out and that I don't see why we can't just work this out here. I told her that over the past month I have done nothing wrong and that we can work this out. All she would say is that she is so miserable here and that she just wants to be out of the house. I asked her how long she plans to be gone and she just said that she did not know. I also told her that I don't know if I will be able to help her move. I am pretty sure that she is having an EA with a guy at work. I have not brought this up to her as she will just say that I am jealous and see nothing has changed I don't trust her. I have no real hard proof on this so I have not said anything. She erases her phone immediately and has her own laptop that is always with her not too mention that she sleeps in her room with the phone under her pillow even when we were still sleeping in the same room. I am sure that this has not turned into a PA. The guy that she is having the EA with has a girlfriend and I really think that she is only attached to him because she knows that she can't act on it and also because of there jobs it would not look good.
In the same sense she is not going for a D or anything because she wants to keep me there as a backup when this gets out of her system or she is done with the other guy. Well I guess going dark and not being there for her is going to be the key.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
