Could use some insight...long...

[Startingover2]

I hear the same thing Kass. Its all VD's fault and she has no work to do. I still don't get her reasons. There is something underlying there and she just may be sugar coating it to avoid conflict and relieve her guilt.

My guess on avoiding counseling is the counselor may point out her issues, her lack of trying, or she may have to fess up that she doesn't want to try. If she wants out she won't want to go to MC.