Your H is not interested enough in you AT THE MOMENT HOW YOU ARE NOW. Once you find your best mojo and he looks back and sees you as you have become, things can change. Honestly, three months ago H was so angry at the world in general and me, would share nothing, couldn't stay in the house at night, would have to go for drives, was only there for the kids. And within 3 months last weekend he turned the TV to Sweet Home Alabama instead of his sports and sat there and watched it with me (WTF??), asks me if I would like a drink several times, actually did the dishes and got up early with the kids without even waking me. And was relaxed and happy.
What changed? Well I tryed to remain calm throughout his anger (although there were tears! and he thought I tryed too hard). He changed too, but one of us had to show the way to a better place if you know what I mean. Being able to or wanting to stay there is a different thing, but its about giving it your best shot if you walk away as well?
