Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[Startingover2]

"But, the same things that attracted me to him are the same things that destroyed us."

Amazing what happens when "life" narrows your view.

This is true...one counselor told me that exh always kept me off balance. Kept me sorta dangling there without even knowing it. Thinking back he did it when we were dating too. It was very subtle but he always kept me grasping and trying harder and harder to please him. I remember thinking that it would change once we became comfortable. It doesn't.