Trying to detach from the madness!

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Thanks guys...Its always something. I don't remember issues of this magnitude when I was married the first time and had small children. I mean, we had problems come up here and there but never like this. I feel like I am chronically dealing with something emotional all the time.

My D hasn't said a word since then. Her dad and I said our peace and we are hoping she takes it to heart. Going to drop it for now with her until we hear more. Hard to say with her. She might just act like things are ok until she is ready to leave then drop another bomb. Hard to say. I am praying she changes her mind.

Exh came for his visit yesterday and stayed a whole hour! Hasn't done that in months. Baby wanted me in sight so I stayed around. We had fun. It was another moment that pulled on my heart strings. I was very pleasant and nice. Not overkill, but civil. Married gf sounds super aggressive and I know he will hate that eventually. He was always trying to keep the peace between first exw and me. We only had a few issues in the very beginning, but he hated conflict. I want to let married gf crash and burn. Exh sent some friendly texts after he left telling me random stuff that is not baby related. I just gave simple answers. Then got a goodnight text late last night. Haven't gotten one of those in awhile.

My d came home from work last night and said that at closing (she works at a drive thru coffee place) married gf came in. D said the sign was off and d was cleaning. Married gf was rude and asked for some drink and d said they were closed. Married gf got sorta rude and d shut the window. Married gf drove away like a bat outta he**. That is one thing...that woman drives so flippin fast. I know she came in on purpose. She knows my D's car. She probably wanted to stir the crap. My d said she was really harsh looking and not attractive at all. She even said its so not exh's type. OW was...I was...exw was. But this girl reminded her of a witch. Scraggly hair, bony face. I still think she is giving him things he wants whether its money or pills or whatever.