Well....it finally is coming to an end...H emailed me that he wants to move forward with MEDIATION.....he says its the most cost effective, PAINLESS, way and best for the kids....WTF? Painless for who? Him maybe? he has gotten to a point he is comfortable in his life so now lets turn mine more upside down than it really is....
I have been with this man for thirty years, I refuse to go down without a fight...it is now my children and myself...I have to do what's best for them...I will never make it on my own...
All this in the middle of planning my daughters wedding, senior year for my D17 and my son is just in the middle...I hate this....I hate all of it...I guess its time to throw in the towel...his OW wins...they have managed to beat me down...
I did try and call him....he didn't answer, of course...I left him a nice message, that I didn't get where this was going to be painless, that I was not going to mediation...for him to proceed whatever way he feels he should...that's it...
He will not be lonely...he has OW her children and his LOVE CHILD....I will be the lonely one....starting now...I feel such an emptiness in my heart and in my stomach...my life has forever changed....thank God for my children....
Is there any attorneys out there that can tell me the best way to go...PLEASE!!!!
Treese
Last edited by Treese; 07/02/0912:17 PM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
