I know this sounds stupid but I would prefer another woman in his life...this one he's with I cared for her kids 20yrs. ago
her child played with my child, she knew we were married,she wanted him back then...and she did have a relationship for over 2 yrs with him she called the house 1 time needing a ride home from work, my husband was already in bed I told her she could get her own ride and to never call our home at that time again and to never call him period the affair started 2 or 3 yrs later he saw her at a walmart and things went from there....so in my eyes I would prefer that he finds another just..... not her.....
funny thing this last time he met her again at a walmart....."WHEN I SAW HER ALL THE OLD FEELINGS CAME BACK is what he told me. Right now she's thinking she has won....but has she really...he cheated on me,why not her,after all we have a history together, kids,she has nothing but is on her best behaviour. I have come alomg way since this started with the Lord by my side and I will be ok...if I could get my husband to pay his monthly child support it would be even nicer and easier for me.he has become a dead beat dad something he said he would never do. I am aware that few ever come back,but this man he has become is not a very nice man to me why would I want that.he will have to totally have to chg.I would not want this self centered,selfish, arrogant,been there done that kinda of man I know he will never be they way he used to be, that man is dead and I mourned as if I had lost him to death and my marriage.dont get me wrong I still love and care for him, and I will never give up hope but right now what I see, I dont want to be treated like that from my husband.thank you for answereing me..be blessed and of to work
