Hi Sandi,

I really appreciate your feedback so far. I wondered if you felt like all the advice you give to LBH's applies exactly the same way to LBW's. The thing that makes me ask this is that women want a H they can respect so if they are off living their own life & being independent this falls in line...but if my H feels like I have been too controlling, does this same line of thought apply...or does the "respect/control" issue even come into play...is it more about the wanting something you can't have?

Are there any threads you can point me in the direction of where a LBW got her WAH back?


Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!