Same here. We are in the same spot. Mine acts a lot like yours. After 25 years of knowing each other I am invisible. I find that amazing.
We give them everything they want, i.e. divorce, OW, freedom, no resposibilities and they are pathetic. What next.
Such a waiting game
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11