My heart wants it to be true. I guess my head is skeptical
A lot of us know that feeling.....and we have our wobbles.
My H hasn't put a foot wrong since coming out about his A and since our solving our problems and recommitting to the M.....but I still worry. sometimes forget but other times I have massive insecurity problems.
You actually sound from your post above that you are doing well. What I would say though, is that if you REALLY think something is going on then trust your instincts. I actually never knew that my H was having his A, which lasted 18 months, before he told me about it. So I was worried I wouldn't know if he did it again. My C assures me that I would just know in my gut if it happened again.
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Now, H and I share some activities. We have other couples that we regularly do things with. Since April, H is more playful with me and flirty. He kisses me, which is something that he stopped doing during the affair. My kids have noticed the changes.
That sounds really good. Sometimes I think things can feel so good again that we begin to not believe it and think ourselves into a position of panic and worry. Do you talk about what happened before and why it did? My H and I still talk about it and why it won't happen again because of the way things are now.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
