When it says to detach, I didn't see much detaching or giving her space on your part. You said it yourself how you opened up the R talk. You haven't given her what she specifically asked for...space. See what happens when you totally give that to her. You had only done it for maybe a couple of days then you would backslide? It's got to take longer than that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.