i'm going to wait longer then an hour. prolly around 5 hours cuz i am getting ready to leave for the beach right now and i'm leaving my phone at home.
You are doing WONDERFUL...
Perfect response to her is.. Just got your message. Was out and left my phone home. Your remote isn't here. (make sure to look for her remote BEFORE you give her your response.)(there is a reason for this)
That's it... Nothing more. Vague. Sounds like you are busy. she should be asking herself why you didn't have your phone with you or if you are lying.
NOW she will have to think of another EXCUSE to contact you if this one was an excuse. ( IF you would have texted her that you will look for it BEFORE looking for it then she would have been able to use that excuse to contact you again,to see if you had found it, which would still leave a doubt whether she really wants the remote or whether it is an excuse to call you to see what if you are still there for her to fall back on. This way you will know that you have her wondering the right things...
GET IT?
Good job . You are on the right path.
gucci,
i wasnt' home to take your advice BUT...
i texted 4.5 hours later saying, "sorry i was out with friends all day. i haven't seen your remote." i instantly shut off both my cell phones as soon as i hit send....
i turned them on a half hour later to find a text message from her saying... "What's with your phones. you trying to get rid of me. I found one of your debut cards."
i didn't reply and turned my phones back off. turned them on at 2:00am today, and got a message at 2:15 from her saying, "Please talk to me tomorrow."
lol, i have no intentions of talking to her tomorrwo. i'm going to the lake with friends again and am shutting my phones off when i leave. then i work tomorrow nite at 7pm. will wait to see what she has to say tomorrow.
i talked to a couple that are my friends tonite, and they broke up at one point, and the guy in the R didn't answer the phone for 5 days lettin his Fiancee call and text him non stop after they had broke up at one point. after the 5th day he answered and said what do you want? that was enough for her to come home. i know that's not gonna help me in my situation, but it gave me confidence in what i'm doing. My friend's W said that she went nuts those four days she didn't know where he was or where he was staying. she said it definately helped her in deciding what she wanted.
Thank you gucci, your advice to others maybe what saves my R. i'm not ignoring her, or being an @sshole, but i'm stopping being her friend through this.
Went out tonite with a guy friend and actually met one of the coolest dudes i've ever come across. he's 44 yo'd but was as real as i am, straight up, no bs. we talked for like 4 hours, and really bonded. i needed this. i didn't need attention from another woman, but to connect with another human bein about life.... i had a great time tonite, honestly the best one i can remember in awhile.
i don't care what W texts or calls about tomorrow.... i'm too busy... not in an @sshole type way, just too busy to be able to carry on a conversation... i'm actually starting to enjoy this single thing. and this is the FIRST time she's said anything like, "Please talk to me tomorrow."
lol, just as soon as Hell freezes over sweetie, i'll get right on that.
I found one of your debut cards."