I'm going really dark for a while. And as Coach suggests I'm not going to do the family events. She can't have it both ways. If anyone else has ideas let me know (how about totally forgetting about her for a while?)
Damn hindsight: Just as robx predicted, she would be all nice until move out time then would turn bad. I thought it would be different for me.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh