OK I'll change my verb from "worrying" to the more accurate "obsessing". Sorry, dude. I'm callin' it like it is.
You are doing great by all accounts. You have come through a very horrible personal trauma. But what you may not realize is that recovery and the pursuit of it can become an obsession, and end up just keeping you tied to the thing you were trying to detach from.
Have a great vacation, but please do your damndest to stop thinking about her/it/this/sitch/db-ing/etc.
I know its hard. I've been there.
But try. When she/her/it/this/sitch/db-ing/etc comes up in your mind, just turn it away and go somewhere else. Try to do this at least 50% of the time.
