Excellent way to handle yourself in that situation. You did great!! Try not to get roped back into the triangle. It is so hard to not get roped back into it. I say that from experience b/c that is what my H does to me. Always manages to rope me back in some how. It is simply a matter of how much we still care for the person. You have been doing great and I am really proud of you for the steps that you have taken on trying to detatch yourself and move in a positive direction!!!
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09