But, the same things that attracted me to him are the same things that destroyed us
this is something that happens to many of us. the things that are quirks or unique about the other person that caused us to be attracted to them, are the exact things that we become annoyed with years down the road. I do believe it all depends on this main thing, to stop looking for our happiness from our spouse and to love ourselves. If we love ourselves, we will not allow others to disrespect us, and we will "shine", and if we stop looking for our happiness from our spouse, we will not be under the downfall of expectations, and both of those things together will allow us to keep ourselves, not lose our identities.
anyways, I know you had a tough road, but I'm happy for you that you've now closed that chapter and are able to move on. Just be sure to better yourself and to create in you the person God meant you to be, both spiritually, physically, and mentally, and God will provide a great person for you to spend your life with and to be the father that K needs.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
