I can really relate to what you said you gained through this. I too have gained a close relationship with GOD. I believe sometimes you are put into these situations so HE can show you who should be #1 in your life. In my case, I had my H and then the marriage. Through the circumstance, HE gives you a gentle nudge and guides you onto the right path. With HIM in the lead of course!
As you may remember, I'm in Georgia on vacation for three weeks. I am having such an awesome and PEACEFUL time. Just to be away, and not having to be in the middle of the nightmare for a while has been incredible for my PMA!