i agree with trusting they saw this becuase they can do what they are doing if they didnt...u know my h father divorced his 2nd wife who was my h adopted mother as his mom died when he was 5...but anyway....he divorced her when my h was 18 and told every one he knew right after he married her he made a mistake....and was never happy....hummmm well u know what he didnt seem happy in his 3rd marriage either and was always belittling the wife....and my h used to say he would never be like his dad....and didnt speak to him for years..well well well, what do we have here.....he left me for the secratary after 22 years of marriage what i thought was a good one and he was treated good.....and he sure doenst look happy.....almost unreconizable to me..and others too.....its very sad
