He can't realize what he has done...he is too self absorbed. If he did have one smidgen of a thought like that he would just freak out so he purposely keeps those thoughts away.
Glad you did the paperwork! Your new life is starting.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!