So you are saying that my H's experience could be more about the sponsor than H?
Could be, could be mutual. I don't want to judge the sponsor without knowing totally what went on, but that's why I wanted to share my experience so you know it happens...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."