Before my H turned around, I was looking to downsize my home, and imagining my son moving out and d going away to school. I felt all was losing... it has been me and my kids as a unit for years before I met H, even when exh was with us, so the idea was unthinkable for me. But in my heart I knew that I raised them to be independent and with the expectations that they would move forward. With the support of this forum,I was beginning to formulate a plan to move forward, please use the help here to do that. As you posted on my thread, whether or not things work out in my M, you knew I would be ok - give yourself the same gift.
