I thought it was a guideline and more about new R not current ones. So you are saying that my H's experience could be more about the sponsor than H?
One can see that H and I are not jumping ahead of ourselves and dealing with things as they come up. I certainly think he is dealing with my recurring thoughts about the past three years in a good way. I thought he would get argumentative and blame me for not moving forward, but I can't help memories flashing in front of me. I just don't dwell on them or let them decide for me either.
