Beepee, would you want to be married to someone who stayed in bed all day? Or would you rather be married to the person that is up, out and about, and accomplishing something. It's "go time" sweetheart. You won't have any chance at all to be back with your man unless you get going. There is plenty of time for moping around and feeling the pain. Right now, you need to get some things done. Some people found fly lady to be helpful in motivating. All we can do is suggest you do one thing or another, you need to be the one that does it.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley