Yes - it definitely did. Sorry I didn't respond as such. It is all so much to process and think about and put into practice. I'm overwhelmed!
I have communicated somewhat to H about porn but I mostly just told him I was okay w/ it so long as it isn't instead of being w/ me. And I'm realizing that I'm not okay w/ it at all. And I feel UNCOMFORTABLE saying that. I feel like it is another demand on my long list of seemingly bossy demands.
