After I was served, there was a 90 day waiting period. Each state has different laws. Educate yourself on the divorce process for your state.
I walked two paths during my process. Hoping for the best, but preparing for the worst. Keep working on positive improvements to YOU, while facing your fears (Divorce). What you resist, persist. Do not resist the divorce process. Embracing it is the best way to help prevent it........
I just keep this thought in my head "I just want my wife to be happy." If she believe D will make her happy, I will not stand in her way. I am only in control of my own happiness. I am not going to put my happiness in her hands......"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712