Why would you "react" when you have been told not to listen to everything they say? You never do things because it might be the best thing. You do things cause you know its the right thing to do and you want to do it. No one can fault you for doing something nice.. because you want to. We can fault you for doing something that has not worked in the past. DB says to try it.. for a while and gauge whether it is working or not. You have had success with something. I might suggest you keep trying it till it stops working. Don't flip-flop. Be consistent with what you do. It is easier to tell if it is working that way.
Fair enough - I guess I was just beginning to lose my patience & wanted to jump to a different "technique".
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
