How will my wife notice that I am changing when I do not speak to her at all?
This is your problem, the changes aren't for her there for YOU. If you are only changing to fix your M, you'll just go back to the same person you were if you W comes back.
Understand there is NOTHING you can do to change your W, NOTHING. She has to want to change, just like you.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
